3- He seeks your sympathy:
How many times have you heard of his ex-girlfriends cheating on him, stalking him and still disturbing him? Did he tell you anything good about them?
Wait. Reality check. If they weren’t good, then why did he date them? Make him your ex before he makes you his, first because he if he is saying these horrible things about others, you’re next on his list.
4- He is always ill:
He had fever the other day. Today he broke his hand. Snap out of his lies. This is a way of tricking you into giving him attention while he is probably cheating on you.
He enjoys keeping you worried about his health. This isn’t a good sign at all. If your man truly loves you, he wouldn’t be keeping you worried about him all the time.
5- He manipulates everything:
How many times have you felt ‘I didn’t mean it when I said this!’? If this happens often, then you need to understand that your man is manipulating you.
He is tweaking your words to show that he is getting hurt by them and if the relationship fails, then it’s your responsibility. Don’t fall into the trap.
6- He gaslights you:
Gaslighting is one the important techniques of emotional psychopaths. They damage you a lot. By gaslighting, your man makes you question your memory, your own perception of the world.
In this way, when you feel he is ignoring you or is cheating on you, you will think you are just not being logical and in the end, when he leaves you, you will feel it’s your fault that you couldn’t sustain the relationship. Leave before his gaslighting takes away all your self-confidence and self-worth.
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